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Aggression, insult, humiliation and blame are easy. Like pressing the accelerator pedal while driving, anyone can do it, but just like driving accurately and delicately, reacting in a timely and appropriate manner in critical situations and choosing the best way to resolve conflict requires empowerment and skill. Whenever you have a problem in your married life, instead of pressing your foot on the accelerator pedal and running relentlessly to the end, wait a few moments and think about the consequences of your choice. “It was not my hand, I was nervous, I could not control myself and …” All are excuses to justify wrong choices Choose a reaction that you can defend an hour later!

You can leave the teaching of language, sports, music, pottery, chess, etc. to the instructor. But teaching personal issues such as puberty, “menstruation” must be done by the mother (homogeneous parent). Do not leave these trainings to anyone. And don’t wait for him to learn from somewhere. False or extreme misinformation can cause anxiety or fear Learn for yourself how to teach.

From the point of view of child psychologists, painting can be a valuable resource for better understanding the child. In fact, painting reflects the inner world of the child and shows his worldview towards life. In his drawings, the child draws well his perception of the relationships in the family. In fact, the relationship of family members with each other, the role of each member and the degree of their intimacy are shown. Children’s paintings express his relationship with the environment around them. In this way, the interpretation of children’s paintings can be used to understand the needs, fears and cognitive and intelligence abilities of children. Painting for children is a means to increase the quality of their mental, emotional and mental development. Your child’s drawings have a meaning that comes to mind, which is why pediatric psychiatrists use children’s drawings as a diagnostic test. Perform a painting interpretation test at a cost of only $ 30 by ...

“I do my best for my son to learn, but his father wastes all my efforts.” “I explained to my daughter a thousand times that… but when her mother disobeys, she does not listen to me.” Children discover disagreement between parents much sooner than you think. At least be a team in front of your child. One of the consequences of parental disharmony is that their power to control the child decreases. The child says to himself: If Dad ‌ can disagree with Mom and tell her whatever he wants ‌ ‌ Why should I not? If Mom can be stubborn and ignore Dad, why not me? When Mom says it’s bad, but Dad says it is not bad, so maybe not really bad. So I can do it too.

One of the biggest problems for parents is that they become so engrossed in the role of parent that they forget to enjoy their child’s childhood. They are so worried about the new information they find that the first day of kindergarten or school becomes a nightmare for them. Talking late, talking too fast, screaming, being in the washing machine, going to a stranger or not, getting out of diapers, weaning, being energetic, writing homework, playing or not playing all become panic.

According to statistics One in five children knows how to use an iPad, but 48% of children do not know where they live. 73% of children can work with a mouse and only 11% can fasten their shoes, and this is a disaster.

Dear mother and father Never imagine That in the house, after all, one must be the boss … These nonsense has nothing to do with a healthy life in which the issue of happiness has no basis …. No one is supposed to have power! What exists and matters is that it is love and respect, and that consultation is the basis of human relations; That’s why you have to give up power. Remember, we are in a world where obedience has no place! Cooperation and cooperation only; As a result, there is a place for cooperation. You are not going to order anyone! Children are not supposed to take orders from anyone …. You just have to teach your child to cooperate.

From the age of 4, our children begin to ask sexual questions out of curiosity. It is at this age that children feel ashamed of nudity and it is necessary for parents to reinforce the fact that their child is not drawn to “sexual recklessness” at an older age. At the age of 5 to 6, the secretion of sex hormones begins very sparingly, and it is at this age that children should be given the correct but short answers. Of course, at this age, the child expresses a desire for children of the opposite sex, which is a natural expression and should not be confused with sexual desire. But at the same time, children’s communication must be controlled and supervised by adults.

Choose the right time when you give the order to your kid. Do not break the children’s game, do not turn off the TV suddenly to read correctly, clean the room. Do not pull your child’s hand in the middle of the game to notify it is too late. Select a specific time to order. Give your child choices and give them time to prepare. If you have to leave the house on time, let your child know in advance when you are coming. Remind me a few minutes in advance, go to him a few minutes earlier and if he is not ready, offer him to help.  Just as example ask him “Do you wear red or white ?” for helping him/her to make decision. Dear parents Remember to repeat 3 words in our children’s lives, It destroys their success and empowerment … You do not know. You can not. It can not be possible.

If you are also worried about your child speaking too late or you think your child is still not able to pronounce the words well, it is good to know that constantly correcting his incomprehensible words will not help his development. Smile at your child saying words like dad or gg or … and show your happiness to your child. Encourage him to talk and do not constantly correct him. All children in this period will go through speaking with incomprehensible words. It is interesting to know that he knows the real names of things and can not just say. So give him a chance and do not undermine his confidence.

Cover your baby with cool, loose-fitting cotton clothes. Bathe your baby early in the summer. If your baby’s body temperature is high, clean the baby’s skin regularly with lukewarm water and a sponge. Do not place the baby directly in front of a fan or air conditioner as this will cause dehydration. Take the baby out of the house at cooler times of the day and do not take him out when the weather is very hot. Choose a cool place for your baby to rest and sleep, but make sure it is not too cold and has a temperature of 24 to 26 degrees Celsius.

In child and adolescent psychology, we learn that the presence and role of the mother (woman) is many times more prominent than the role of the father. In other words, it should be said that eighty percent of human upbringing (men and women) is in the hands of the mother and by the mother. A country whose wives are psychologically perfect and do not create problems for them will have the best human beings. That is, the best human beings are trained in it.

Treat children more consciously and kindly. Do not be the same color as the congregation. No parent ever wants to hurt their child, but educational abuse is on the rise. Man is growing and perfecting from the embryonic period until death and even after death. Let’s not just say that the child is the only flower in the basket at this moment. Let us not destroy the love of learning in our children under the pretext of success. Children love to learn and develop, it is in their nature. Provided that adults allow …

Research shows that the adults who are most emotionally needy are those who did not receive enough love from their parents as children. The healthiest adults are those who are able to express their love to others. Because as a child, their parents loved them unconditionally.

Hello, I am a 21-year-old mother. My husband is 25 years old and he is a pastry chef. We have a 1.5 year old daughter who eats almost nothing except breast milk and is very dependent. She is breastfeeding overnight and I am very weak. She does not open his mouth at all and runs away, or play with food when I put in front of her. she just plays. Is it good to take it from milk and do you think it is good to take it now? Is it because I really brought less? Dear mother, according to pediatric and breastfeeding experts, the 6-month-old mother meets all the needs of the baby, and then the baby should be fed according to the diet plan first and the number of breastfeeding sessions should be reduced. Consider the problem. You should not breastfeed your baby all at once right now because it is a big emotional blow to him. Minimize breastfeeding meals and add them to meals, but make sure the volume of meals is small so that the baby does not skip eating. Play with the baby during the day. Slee...

One of the most risky behaviors that parents should never do to their children is to have sex near or in front of them. Unfortunately, some parents have their own private behaviors towards the child with the justification that “the child does not understand or such behaviors cause the child to learn to love and be loved by others and …”. One of the reasons for premature puberty in children is exposure to inappropriate scenes through parents, movies, music, the Internet, and so on.

When a child starts painting, it means that he is showing his inner world to you. By drawing, children express their views of the world around them. You can learn a lot about your child by examining his / her drawing. Anxiety, fear, stress, anger, jealousy, love and hate and … Everyone is reflected in a child’s painting … In fact, painting is a way to enter the world of the child and know his spirits. How much do you know about your child’s inner state?

Take care of your teenager’s nutrition and replace fast food, spicy or unhealthy foods such as vegetables and healthy and home-made foods … Respect your teen friends. Pride is very important for most teenagers and therefore they do not like to be humiliated in front of their friends or their friends are insulted by their parents. Take control of your teen in moderation and do not try to isolate him by restricting and constant care.